When baby makes three, spontaneity goes out the window

When you are tired and fraught, it’s easy to see sex as just another chore on an endless to-do list.

* I had a baby seven months ago, which involved an episiotomy. The stitches took a long time to heal and I have been too anxious and too tired to have sex with my husband. How can I get over my fear and get back to a normal sex life?

>>Having had an episiotomy myself, I can feel your pain. It was a long time ago, but I recall my then husband going green and leaving the delivery room.