We are so busy with the kids we never have time for sex

I thought that once our three children were out of the baby stage our sex life would improve, but I was wrong.

Sex at bedtime doesn’t happen because my partner and I are always tired. Weekends are spent ferrying the kids from parties to swimming and back, and during the week we both work. What can we do?

>> When I read your question I shuddered at the parallels between your life and mine. My husband and I used to get wound up about it all, and for a while it caused a kind of low-grade friction between us.