Arrival of new man may change family dynamic

I’m 44 and a single mother of two children. Six months ago, I met a man through an online dating agency.

He is funny and kind and I enjoy his company. We have had sex a couple of times at his place, but it’s always rushed as I need to relieve the babysitter. I could bring him back to my place but I don’t want to upset the children, who are aged 12 and 14. What do you think?

>> At any age a new relationship is exciting. And at 44, our sexual needs are just as strong as when we are 34 or even 24. But once you add children to the mix, the dynamic dramatically changes.