No gain telling husband you kissed his best friend

Q. I was recently at a boozy couples’ dinner party with friends. I went outside for a cigarette and was followed by my husband’s best friend.

We had a passionate kiss and fondled. I am wracked by guilt and shame. Should I tell my husband?

A. It’s all too easy to lose track of alcohol intake at a dinner party — measures are usually generous and it’s free. Regardless, we need to take responsibility for the amount we drink and for our actions.