Suzanne Harrington: Bravo Nora Hegarty for handing the shame of rape back to the abuser

One of the cruellest aspects of abuse – of anyone, at any age – is that it is the abused who take on the toxic load of shame, says Suzanne Harrington
Suzanne Harrington: Bravo Nora Hegarty for handing the shame of rape back to the abuser

Suzanne Harrington: The action of Nora Hegarty offers hope to all those still locked in their own private prisons

When Nora Hegarty allowed her identity to become public so that everyone would hear about the sexual abuse she endured daily as a child, it was for a specific reason. Not revenge, but transference. A handing over of the shame and hurt she had been carrying since childhood. She handed it back.

Imagine the weight of that shame and hurt, and imagine the feeling of letting it go. Imagine the liberation of finally handing it back to the man who caused it, rather than being its silent carrier. What a relief that must be. And what a flare of hope for others still shouldering their own awful load.

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