Storm damage put a lot of things in perspective

Itâs not hard to imagine the horridness of being flooded, the visceral awfulness of it. The dismay, the feeling of helplessness, the sheer muddy, stinky, chilly slog of it all.
But as Ireland and the UK are forced to look again at flood defence budgets, listen to what one rural Yorkshire resident has to say about his home being flooded.
âI live in Hebden Bridge,â wrote Liam Cox on social media, in the days after Christmas where his home town was submerged. âItâs shit â everything has gotten really wet.â
His perspective, however, remains undamaged. âIâm alive. Iâm safe. My family are safe. We donât live in fear. Iâm free. There arenât bullets flying about. There arenât bombs going off. Iâm not being forced to flee my home and Iâm not being shunned by the richest countries in the world or criticised by its residents.â
Nor has his humanity been dampened. âAll you morons vomiting your xenophobia on [social media] about how money should only be spent âon our ownâ need to look at yourselves closely in the mirror. I request you ask yourselves a very important question... âAm I a decent and honourable human being?â Because home isnât just the UK, home is everywhere on this planetâ.
When rotten things happen, people tend to react on a spectrum from angry, bitter, and blaming to co-operative, empathetic, and optimistic. Sometimes a mixture. We are human, after all. But of all the bad reactions a person can have to local misfortune, xenophobia has got to the be worst. The mutant child of nationalism â defined by one online wag as âtaking pride in stuff you didnât do in order to hate people you have never metâ â xenophobia kills your empathy and humanity stone dead.
We all know that the comments section anywhere online â even supposedly civilised places â is where the pitchforks live. Where the mobs gather, sharpening their spelling mistakes, poisoning their vitriol, honing their misinformation.
Imagine, then, explaining to a time traveller from the past how these days every citizen carries a device in their pocket which gives us access to all of human knowledge, power, endeavour and information. And what do we use it for, apart from sharing films of cats falling off pianos? Trolling. Ranting, abusing, hate-talking.
As Ireland prepares to take in 4,000 refugees fleeing hell, rather than high water, we have a choice.
We can empathise, now that our own homes have been flooded by an angry Mother Nature, and try to imagine what it might feel like to catastrophically lose not just our downstairs carpets, but everything, everything, everything. Violently.
We can tell the government we want to help more people far worse off than we are, that we are a rich country, with lots of space.
We can be decent human beings, because, just as that Yorkshire man said, âhomeâ is everywhere on the planet.