My girlfriend never wants a ‘quickie’

My girlfriend likes to take sex really slow. I also love that, but we don’t always have time in our busy lives to dedicate an hour or more to it (including foreplay).

This means we have sex much less often than I think both of us would like. How can I excite her into wanting the occasional quickie?

Perceptions of what constitutes a “quickie” vary, but compared to “average” durations, you and your girlfriend seem to be training for a marathon.