Charlottesville victim's mother urges mourners to make Heather's death worthwhile

The mother of the young woman mowed down while protesting a white nationalist rally in Charlottesville urged mourners at a memorial service to "make my daughter's death worthwhile" by confronting injustice the way she did.

"They tried to kill my child to shut her up. Well, guess what? You just magnified her," said Susan Bro, receiving a standing ovation from the hundreds who filled a theatre to remember 32-year-old Heather Heyer.

Ms Heyer's death on Saturday - and US President Donald Trump's insistence that "both sides" bear responsibility for the violence - continued to reverberate across the country, triggering fury among many Americans and soul-searching about the state of race relations in the US. The uproar has accelerated efforts in many cities to remove symbols of the Confederacy.

Ms Heyer was eulogised as a woman with a powerful sense of fairness. The mourners, many of them wearing purple, her favourite colour, applauded as her mother urged them to channel their anger not into violence but into "righteous action".

State troopers were stationed on the surrounding streets, but the white nationalists who had vowed to show up were nowhere to be seen among the residents, clergy and tourists outside the Paramount Theatre, just blocks from where Ms Heyer died.

Ms Heyer, a white legal assistant from Charlottesville, was killed and 19 others were injured on Saturday when a car ploughed into counter-protesters who had taken to the streets to decry what was believed to be the country's biggest gathering of white nationalists in at least a decade.

The hundreds of white nationalists - including neo-Nazis, skinheads and Ku Klux Klan members - had descended on Charlottesville after the city decided to remove a monument to Confederate general Robert E Lee.

Mark Heyer, the father of Heather Heyer

The driver of the car, James Alex Fields Jr, a 20-year-old Ohio man described as an admirer of Adolf Hitler and Nazi Germany, was arrested and charged with murder and other offences.

Jody and Brent Dahlseng, of Rockford, Illinois, said they were travelling to Virginia Beach for a holiday and made a special stop. They stood outside the theatre with purple ties around their shoulders.

"This country can do better than this," Mr Dahlseng said.

Charlottesville resident Danielle Notari, who was also outside the theatre, spoke through tears.

"We wanted to come say goodbye and pay our respects," she said, her arms wrapped around her young daughter.

Susan Bro, mother to Heather Heyer

Ms Heyer's family members and friends said her death would only inspire them to fight harder for justice.

"This is not the end of Heather's legacy," Ms Bro said.

Speaking firmly, Ms Bro urged those who wanted to honour her daughter to "find in your heart that small spark of accountability".

"You poke that finger at yourself like Heather would have done, and you make it happen," she said. "You take that extra step and you find a way to make a difference in the world!"

Ms Heyer's grandfather, Elwood Shrader, said she always wanted fairness, even from a young age, and was quick to call to call out something that wasn't right. He said she wanted respect for everyone and believed "all lives matter."

Mark Heyer, her father, said his daughter wanted to "put down hate".

"She's very compassionate, she's very precise, got a big heart," said Larry Miller, her boss at the law firm where she worked. "She wants to make sure that things are right. She cares about the people that we take care of."

Marcus Martin, right, hugs his fiance Marissa Blair

Mr Trump tweeted for the first time about Ms Heyer on Wednesday, calling her "beautiful and incredible" and a "truly special young woman".

Two Virginia state troopers also died on Saturday in the crash of their helicopter, which was used to provide video of the rally before it was diverted to lend support for the governor's motorcade.

The funerals for Berke M.M. Bates and H Jay Cullen are set for Friday and Saturday.


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