Abuse 'ruined my childhood and so far my adult life,' says victim as older cousin gets 10 years

Abuse 'ruined my childhood and so far my adult life,' says victim as older cousin gets 10 years

A man who abused his young cousin by making him perform sex acts over a six-year period has been jailed for 10 years.

Thomas Patton (aged 51) with an address at Castle Avenue, Clontarf, had pleaded not guilty at Dublin Circuit Criminal Court to 24 counts of indecent assault of his cousin at Castlefinn, Co Donegal, on dates between April 1, 1984 and January 1, 1990.

Patton was found guilty of the 24 counts by a jury following a trial in July, last. He has no previous convictions. The court heard that the victim, Mark Patton, has waived his right to anonymity.

The court heard that Patton and the victim were first cousins. There was a nine-year age gap between the two and the offending behaviour commenced when the victim was aged six.

The victim said that while he was never hit by Patton he was "made to" perform oral and intercourse acts and remembers cleaning up afterwards and being told to be quiet.

Passing sentence, Judge Melanie Greally said the victim impact report made it clear the victim felt “irreversibly tainted” by his childhood experiences.

She said the victim had experienced considerable isolation as a result of the division in his family as a consequence of him disclosing the abuse.

Judge Greally said the case was aggravated by the extreme nature of the offending, the long period of time over which the offending occurred, the regularity of the offending, the extreme youth of the victim, the breach of trust and the intense emotional and psychological turmoil the offending caused the victim.

She said the case was mitigated by Patton being a minor during the initial crimes and a very young man during the later crimes, his lack of previous convictions, his living a productive life since the offending, his achievements in business and his pro-social family life.

Judge Greally said she was distinguishing between the 10 offences of indecent assault committed by Patton as a minor and the 14 later offences of indecent assault committed when he was an adult.

She sentenced him to four years' imprisonment for the earlier offences and six years' imprisonment for the later offences. She ordered that the sentences run consecutively with each other for an effective operating sentence of 10 years' imprisonment.

Judge Greally concluded by wishing the victim well and said she recognised that a conclusion of the trial proceedings was not a conclusion of the manifest pain that had been caused.

At an earlier sentencing hearing, Detective Garda Dominic McGrath told Derek Cooney BL, prosecuting, that the victim's father was from Ballybofey, Co. Donegal, and that his uncle had built a house there in the 1980s that the family regularly visited.

The victim, who stayed in the house in Castlefinn when aged between five and 12, would sleep in the same bedroom as the accused.

The court heard that Patton would kiss the victim on the mouth and make him “strip off nearly every night he stayed there" and that the victim was made to perform oral sex and intercourse. The court heard that the victim felt he was "in love" with Patton, whom he also thought of as a "big brother".

In his victim impact statement, which was read out in court by the victim, Mark Patton said that he found maintaining relationships difficult, that he had been in counselling for 20 years and that there was pressure put on him from within his family to "stay quiet".

He said he felt worthlessness and shame about the abuse and that the assaults "ruined my childhood and so far my adult life".

He said he was overprotective of his three children, "never had everyday-life's pleasures" and that some of his relatives had stopped talking to him since the accused was found guilty.

Mark Patton said that the family was "splintered" since the guilty verdict and that his mother was "sick and frail due to this - maybe, I should have stayed quiet".

"My kids are the reasons I pursued this. I did it to protect them and others," he said, adding that the HSE had told him the assaults were "make believe".

Paul Greene SC, defending, said his client was "a man who spent a great part of his childhood believing his grandmother was his mother" before he made contact with his mother.

Mr Greene noted that his client was not accused of using the threat of violence in the case. He said his client had to work abroad trying to make a living for his family.

Counsel said that while in custody his client had completed courses in music, art, writing and was involved in a choir.

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